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The End Is Always As It Should Be

As time goes by I am always amazed by what the passing time can do.
It is said that time will wash everything away. And that in the end, everything will be alright.
I actually believed that if it is not OK, it is not the end.

But, as time goes by, I realised that nothing is as wrong as this one.
The end will never be as we expected in the beginning. It is almost crazy to think that time will not change what we first wished for, what are hopes were.
There will always be a first plan. But there will always be changes on the road. It is inevitable, because we change every day. Every minute even.
There are no events which have no repercussions. There is no word that doesn't get to be embedded.
Even if we don't realise, with every passing moment, we change.

So, maybe the end is not going to be as expected, but who knows?! Maybe this is for the better.

Be Good! You Do It For Yourself.

It's Christmas soon. It is supposed that people are better. It is supposed that we are becoming better because of the holly days. Yes, holly days. You read it right.
It's all about the Holly spirit, right?
Yet, on my last soul searching I realised we got it all wrong.
People are not better. They just search for a better time, for a better image, for a better self image.
People actually are never as good as we think. Or, better said, people are not good for the reasons we think they are.
Call me cynical, but ....I am realistic now.
People are not better for you. They get better for themselves only.

Sometime ago I read such a harsh idea, which seemed at the moment as the most cynical idea ever for me: that when we worry, we do it because we are afraid for what we will feel when the loved ones will get injured or something. So, if we say that you should take care or wear that extra sweater is because we are afraid that we will get hurt when you are ill. Crazy, ha?!
But sad…

You Are Not Broken, Woman! You Are a Phoenix!

''You've seen my descent,  Now watch my rising.'' (Rumi)
From time to time there comes a moment when we have to make a choice either to live the same old stories over and over again or just step forward and do the scariest, but the most freeing thing in the world: ERASE everything and RE-WRITE the whole story.
It is the time when you see how small you let yourself be, you hear yourself  whispering instead of roaring out loud and you decide that's enough. It is time to change that! 
Time to let go of all that and be done with this chapter.
Time to understand that no matter all the painful things that happened to you, no matter how broken you felt, you were never a broken woman.It was all in your head.
So, be done with that chapter. Be done with that book! Close it, seal it and start a new-life changing story. Honour your past, but be ready to burn it all in the flames of your rebirth.
Because, my darling, you are not the things that happened to you. You are not your mi…

Draga mea, alege un om pe care sa il numesti "domnul meu"

"Draga mea,

Când vei alege, te rog, alege-l pe cel pe care l-ai câștigat pe genunchi. Nu îți dori să alegi un bărbat pe care l-ai câștigat datorită hainelor tale, a corpului tău, a banilor tăi și nici măcar a inteligenței tale. Toate pot să fie azi, iar mâine nu. Bătălia pentru inimă se poartă totdeauna pe genunchi. Asta e cheia. Un astfel de bărbat nu va cădea la picioarele tale cu luna de pe cer. Un astfel de bărbat va îngenunchea pentru a-ți spăla picioarele.

Fii atentă la Luceferi. Sunt mulți. Peste unul sigur vei da. Mă rog să fii păzită, dar dacă vei da peste unul neînțeles spune-i să se întoarcă în cercul lui strâmt. Nu ești psiholog. Nu e de datoria ta să îi rezolvi instabilitatea și eșecul în dragoste.

Când vei alege, te rog, alege-l pe cel care îți e superior cu un nivel. Știu că nu sună bine, dar nu vei putea fi supusă unui bărbat inferior. Nu îl alege pe cel care e cu o sută de pași înaintea ta. Acesta te va vedea ca o servitoare, nu ca pe o soție. Fiecare nivel își are …

Looking at Me

It is said that the eyes are the mirrors of our soul.
We tend to look into the others eyes in search for answers and signs, we tend to look for our loved ones eyes to feel connection.

I ask you now though, when is the last time you looked into your own eyes?
When is the last time when you stopped searching for answers and relief in others and turned to yourself.

After a hard time meditation, some time ago, I came up with such a sweet, yet painful message from Mother Nature. Amongst the trees, the last sandalwood scents, under the moon ray, I finally got it. The love we are all seeking is in our hearts. The love, the acceptance, the care, the pampering, all of those we own to ourselves. We are the ones who live this life, we are the creators of our lives.

I know it is hard for you now. I get it.
In hard times, my dearest, always look into your eyes because the eyes, baby, they never lie.
Always inquire yourself in the mirror.

Ask yourself first for forgiveness. Be grateful for what yo…

Guard Thy Thoughts For They Become Your Life

A few weeks ago, I finally read the book my best friend recommended me: The Game of Life and How to Play It, by Florence Schovel Shinn, and I decided to make my own affirmation and to try it.
Actually, not to try it but to believe in it. This is the exact term.

And yes, it all changed.
Somehow everything changed.

Still, in the light of the last days, I can't help but wonder: is this for real? Is it for real or our mind is the one that gives what we want to see?

You see, I get it. The old saying about knocking if you want the door to open, the ask and you shall receive. I get all of this.

The question is though, is there a door anyway?
Maybe it is all in our minds: we see a door when there is none. We see the open door when we are ready to pass through it.

Is it possible that maybe our limits create the obstacle, and then when we are able to move forward, when we dare, we unlock the path just by being able to acknowledge the already existing path?

The audio book can be found here.…