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It's beggining to look a lot like Christmas :)

Buna dimineata,
Am stat cuminte zilele astea , asteptand sa ma cuprinda magia Craciunului care bate la usa. Insa nu a fost un success.
Si tot asteptand eu asa, mi-am amintit un principiu pe care il indragesc mult : ,, good things come to those who act.’’ Asadar , m-am asezat in fata laptopului si am inceput sa actionez, trimitand mesaje si emailuri catre cei dragi , cautand idei de cadouri inedite si mi-am dat seama ca , usor-usor, a inceput sa ma cuprinda nerabdarea.
Nerabdarea sa ajung acasa, unde am copilarit, sa ne adunam toata familia in bucatarie in jurul cozonacilor, sa imi beau cafeaua de dimineata cu mama si fratele meu ,sa ii vad bucuria pustiului meu cand va primi cadourile, sa imi imbratisez prieteni dragi pe care nu i-am mai vazut de tare mult, sa o revad pe Diana (my soulmateJ), sa vad Dobrovatul dupa care tanjesc zilnic.
Dar cel mai mult, abia astept serile sub plapuma , in care , ca atunci cand eram copii, ma asez cu fratele meu la discutii si dezbatem trecut, prezent si v…

You must read this! Reminder for your life from Keanu Reeves

No glitz, no glam, just a slight glimmer of ‘ there’s gotta be more’ in his eyes. 
His statement serves as a great reminder that today IS a gift and we can do anything and feel anything we want in the only moment that ever really, truly exists… which is right now.
Remember, when you’re living in your head, you are either agonizing over something that happened in the past or worrying about something that may or may not happen in the future. Back and forth we go in our minds. Worrying and regret make us feel like we are actively working to solve a problem, but in reality they hold us hostage from action (and happiness). Being present in the moment pulls you out of this draining thought cycle and allows you to actually enjoy your life. Maybe that’s why it feels so good to just stop and breathe. So take care to remind yourself that you are safe and secure, and that whatever you are doing in this moment is the only thing that matters.

,,You see these people behind me? They are rushing to work …

30 Reminders that will make you celebrate today

As they say: ,,when life gives you lemons, ask for tequila too''. Do ask for that tequila, if you feel so , but first, let me give you some quick reminders.After this, you might as well ask for champagne.

In the rush of life, we often forget the stuff that keeps us rolling along when all we want to do is stop. Each of us copes differently but, from my experience, these little reminders have stood the test of time, offering me the wisdom I needed the most. Maybe they can offer the same for you: You can’t build anything without starting at the bottom.How you fuel the fire determines the quality and duration of its glow.Being afraid has a purpose; being brave has a bigger one.Being brave has nothing to do with not being afraid.Being brave almost always means that you are, in fact, afraid.The bigger picture is always made up of smaller ones.The truth sounds the same in a whisper as it does in a scream.Your definition of love is the only one that matters.The most profound learning …

Dreptul sa nu fiu OK

We live in a society that demands us to be optimistic, without telling us how to do that.
We live in a society in wich, if you allow yourself to feel blue and show your sadness, you're doomed, as if you have a contagious disease.

We live in a society in wich being ok and saying that you are ok are two different things.

But, I refuse to accept the fact that this society defines me and that it can impose it's own rules on me.
I refuse to lie to others and to myself.

I am demanding the right of not being ok.
I am demanding the right to show that I am down and cranky, if this is what I really feel.
I demand the right to show my true feelings.

I refuse to feel awkward when I'm not in the mood for socialization, for bad jokes and I prefer solitude instead of bad company.

Because there isn't always sunshine and I am not always in the ninth heaven.
And I need to be allowed to express what I really feel, no matter if this is pleasant or not for the others to see.

I demand to hav…

So, What's the Plan? 10 Ways to Finish this Year with a Smiling Heart

After a short national holiday , I woke up in the morning with the feeling that,,This is it! It is the last month of this year.Maybe I didn’t complet all my plans , but there is no need to run in circle now. All I have to do is to look back and be gratefull for what I’ve accomplished and start drafting new plans for the next year. But first of all, nowit is a great reminder to LET GO.

And since the New Year is just around the corner, which inspires many of us to refocus our energy and attention on the right things, I think it’s a perfect time right now to start letting go of the wrong things. Wouldn’t you agree?

So today, I am challenging myself and you to:

1. Let go of your temper. – Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.

2. Let go of grudges. – Life is far too short to be spent in bitterness and registering wrongs. If there’s someone in your life who deserves another chance, give it to them. If you need to apologize, do it. Give your story togethe…

Do yourself a favor: Let go!

Let go or be dragged.
Intrebarea nu este daca poti sau nu sa renunti. Adevarata provocare este sa realizezi cand perseverenta devine persistenta in eroare. Intr-o lume in care din toate colturile ni se striga ,,You can do it!Don't give up! '', a devenit rusinos sa recunosti ca uneori pur si simplu iti vine sa dai totul deoparte si sa nu te uiti inapoi.
Iti este aproape jena sa spui cu glas tare ca nu vrei sa mai incerci , nu vrei sa mai demonstrezi cat de perseverent si ambitios esti , doar ca sa fii in tonul corporatist care te inconjoara.
Asta este de fapt provocarea .Aici este greutatea. Sa realizezi cand enough is enough si sa ai curajul sa spui clar ,,Pana aici.Pana azi."

Job Offer. Copywriting for Jon Morrow

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If you are trying your best to write and you really want to succed , Jon Morrow is  a guy you wanna work for. He'll mentor you, push your limits and make you give your best!

Who the bip is Jon Morrow? Smart , funny guy. The one you would like to have as a mentor.

Well , you should see this :About Jon
And , go ahead! Make a smart move! :)

3 Things You Must Give Up to Find Your Peace

Peace of mind transpires and thrives when you let go of the things that limit your growth and happiness.
You work for this peace every time you give up…

1.  Old regrets and excuses.
You can’t always choose what happens to you, but you can always choose how you feel about it and what you do about it.  You don’t have to be defined by the things you did or didn’t do in the past.  Don’t let yourself be controlled by regret.  Maybe there’s something you could have done differently, or maybe not.  Either way, it’s merely something that has already happened.
Be done with these old regrets; they’re just an excuse for people who have failed, and failing only happens if you learn nothing and give up.  Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have a habit of making these empty excuses.
Think about it, you rarely fail for the things you do.  You fail for the things you don’t do, the business you leave unfinished, the things you make excuses about for the rest of your life.

2.  Th…

5 Choices You'll Thank Yourself Later For

When life pushes you over, stand up and push back even harder and when you have choices to make, make the ones your future self will thank you for.
Today, start...
1.  Choosing to be YOU. – Wearing a mask wears you out.  Faking it is fatiguing.  The most exhausting activity is pretending to be who you know you aren’t.  No matter how loud their opinions are, they do not choose who YOU are.  Choose yourself even if nobody else is choosing you.
2.  Being positive. – You can’t live a positive life with a negative attitude.  Heaven on Earth is a choice we must make, not a place we must find.  Let every day be a dream you can touch.  Let every day be a love you can feel.  Let every day be a reason to live.  Life is too short to be anything but positive.
3.  Letting go. – The only thing that makes it a big part of your life is that you keep thinking about it.  The biggest step in changing the world around you is to change the world within you.  Don’t cry over the past, it’s gone.  Don’t stre…

6 Lovely Lessons from The Little Prince , The Best Book of my Childhood

When I first read this book, I was a kid and I immediately fell in love with it.  The lessons it taught me have allowed me to open my eyes and heart, taught me to see things with in their real light and educated my mind and soul. Every time I 've read The Little Prince, I've taken different meanings from it depending on where I was in my life. I feel like I would be influencing the true nature of the quotes by writing my thoughts next to them. Each one is subjective, the whole book is subjective, so everyone will resonate with it differently, depending on their own unique life experience. These are just a few, but some of my very favourite quotes from the book. ~ “It is only with the heart that one can see clearly.
What is essential is invisible to the eye.”

“Then you shall judge yourself,” answered the king. “That is the most difficult thing of all. It is far more difficult to judge oneself than to judge others. If you succeed in judging yourself rightly, then indeed you are very w…

Live 1,000 Times

“I have seen and touched and danced and sung and climbed and loved and meditated on a lifetime spent living honestly.  Should it all end tomorrow, I can positively say there would be no regrets.  I feel fortunate to have walked 90 years in my shoes.  I am truly lucky.  I really have lived 1,000 times over.”( an old , happy lady)
Sometimes you will not be able to see where you are going; every step will seem uncertain. 
But know that as long as you follow your intuition and take baby steps, your soul’s inner GPS will guide you home.  You will find that you will be the right person, at the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing on point. 
Trust your instincts.  Relax.  You know what to do.  Living is about learning as you go.
Living is risky business. Every decision, every interaction, every step, every time you get out of bed in the morning, you take a small risk. To truly live is to know you’re getting up and taking that risk, and to trust yourself to take it.  To not g…

Focus. Open Your Heart.

Well, it’s true, you have failed and you have been hurt… perhaps quite a bit. But it’s also true that you have loved, and been loved. 

That you have risked, and received. 
That you have grown not just older, but wiser every day. 

And all of this carries a weight of its own – a greater weight than any particular failure or wound.  Think of your whole life as a giant pie chart.  In the end, you will look back on your life and see that the greatest portion of it was spent living, loving, and learning through unanticipated, priceless experiences. 

The problems, the failures, the sadness… these things are part of the pie, but they are just small slivers that led to the bigger slices of life.

What you need to realize is that we all do things we desperately wish we could undo. These feelings of regret just become part of who we are, along with everything else. 

To spend time trying to change the past, is to waste all of the present and future. 
Forget the failures of the past and focus on t…

Vrei sa fii cel mai bun? Ia de aici!

Ia te uita ! Asa , dis de dimineata , inca o oportunitate :)

Se stie! Cine se trezeste de dimineata, ajunge departe :)


Before Your Next Birthday ...

These days, after such stressful days at work and the Super Moon , I snapped at home and I found myself saying things I wouldn’t normally do. My dear friend, who visited us these days, took me out for a walk and talked to me about this state of mine.  “What? I am just a little bit agitated.’’ I said.  She smiled and said, “Honey, someday you will think it’s funny that you were so damn nervous today.”

Boy, was she right!  Today, the I still catch myself entering a bout of irritability,but I do my best to take a deep breath and let it GO.  So, if you feel the same, I encourage you to do the same.

Truth be told, today is the oldest you’ve ever been and the youngest you will ever be again.  It’s kind of scary, but it’s true.  If there was ever a perfect day to start letting go of the needless drama and stress that’s been holding you back, that day is today.  And since we often use our birthdays as mile markers to track our personal growth and accomplishments, I challenge you to this:

Before …

The Relation Between the Moon and the Human Mind

Every thing around us has an effect on something within us – be it our exposure to the sun’s ultraviolet radiation (UVR), looking at the morning sky, taking a walk in the forest, or swimming in the sea – nature’s beauty prompts the flow of hormones and energy in our body.  But not everything that’s present in nature is fundamentally good for human beings.

The Moon, romanticised by poets and artists since ages, has a series of negative effects on the human mind, scientifically and spiritually. Several scientists and research institutions have conducted experiments over the years to study the effect of moon and full moon nights on the human mind and behaviour. Moon, Conscious and Sub-Conscious According to Quantum Physics, everything in the Universe – stars, planets, satellites or even the moon has an operating frequency. 
The frequency emanated by the moon affects the frequency of the mind that exerts control over our feelings, emotions and desires. The mind, which consists of consciou…

12 Laws That Will Change Everything

I hear lately that mindfulness as a daily ritual is the ultimate challenge and practice.  It’s a way of living, of being, of seeing, of tapping into the full power of your humanity. At its core, mindfulness is… Being aware of what’s happening in the present moment without wishing it were differentEnjoying each pleasant experience without holding on when it changes (which it will)Being with each unpleasant experience without fearing it will always be this way (which it won’t)Knowing this is important.  Living every day in such a way that makes mindfulness possible is life-changing. So, here are twelve basic laws of (practical) mindfulness, that will change the way you see things and your entire life :
1.  Your only reality is THIS MOMENT, right here, right now.The secret to health for the mind, body and soul is not to mourn the past, nor to worry about the future, but to live the present moment mindfully and purposefully.True wealth is the ability to experience the present moment fully.  …

How To Find Your Way Back When You're Lost

My ears used to perk up whenever I heard someone refer to him or herself as a “seeker.” Why? Because I could instantly relate to them, perhaps in the same way that you can to me. I understood what it was like to be looking for something, but never really knowing what that was. This was not something that affected my life lightly—rather, it was the reason I read hundreds of books, asked more questions than anyone I knew, burned through relationships.
My need to findsomething was like an affliction. It was a fire that burned through every aspect of my life and still fuels me to this day. I heard people say that they were “trying to find themselves,” and this never really made sense to me. My search was always for other people with whom I could truly relate. I sought to understand my purpose in life, and to know just why,bloody why, we are all in this crazy world.
In a nutshell, my search was for truth. I needed to know.
I knew other people who had firm beliefs about everything existential…